Friday, April 20, 2007 . 12:14 PM
I had to take another mc yesterday bcos of the diarrhea that has been happening over the past few days. I went to see another doc, who prescribed me much stronger medication. I'm feeling much better, I can feel hungry once again, but i also beginning to experience gastric when i feel hungry. Sigh....problematic.
This is a printscreen of her show from my pc. You can click on it, to bring u to all her other shows.
The episode yesterday was about matchmaking some female models to 'normal civilian' guys the show found. There were 10 men aged 21-27 years old. So the host interviewed each of the guys, questions like their age, careers,pay, interest, how many ex gfs, how many sexual relationships.
Most of the guys were very comical and interesting. When asked about how many sexual relationships they ever had, ALL of them replied some numbers. Which means everyone of them had sexual intimacy with their gfs before.
In this present age, i gez that's not surprising. And i also know that Taiwanese are very open-minded. The show had 3 special celebrities invited as well, and they were giving comments like .. It's ok to have sexual intimacy as long as you love the person.
Later on in the show, the 1st 'candidate', this sweet-looking model came out of the backstage. So of cos the host also posted some questions to her and one of the questions was did she ever had any sexual relationship with her exs. She was really embarrassed, she didn't want to answer. Then one of the special celebrities , a male, said something like,' Oh that's a very important thing leh. We have to know.' So the camera flashed across the 10 men, all of them looking eager to know, and the pretty model looking trapped. ANyway, the host didn't make it too difficult for her, she changed topic.
I was just thinking, if the society is so open nowadays, it's ok for men to sleep around while in a relationship. In fact, i think if a man couldn't get the gf to have sexual relationship with him, he probably am a loser.His friends would think he's a loser. The society thinks that there's something wrong with their relationship then. But when you look at a girl, we rather want to know that she's a virgin. Then what happened to all those girls that the guys dated and slept with? It's ok for the guys in a relationship to b bedding the girls, but it's not ok for the girls to aldy lose their virginity? So a guy is not loose when he engaged in sexual relationship while the girls are?
What's wrong with society nowadays?
Call me conservative, but i'm not as open as that. I believe my friends know my stand about sexual intimacy. I juz feel sad that, actually there are double standards all over the place. A part of mi wish that girls could be just released from such rubbish, but i don't agree with sexual relationship anyway. So girls,just learn to b smarter ok. There's no equality in this world. A man is made for certain roles, while a female for other roles. We are not equal, but we are at the same level, no superiority over each other. But when it comes to sexual relationship, it's always the girls who will lose out. Like in this case, we have aldy lost when it comes to how the society views sexual intimacy for a girl. If a guy cannot wait till marriage, then he's not worth being together with, bcos even when in a marriage, he may not stay true to you since sex is no longer something that belongs exclusively to both of you..
Just my 10 cents worth of thoughts. You can disagree. But that's your business.
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