Tuesday, December 16, 2003 . 3:48 PM
Hmm i feel like i shd update all of u at one go abt my parents' situation in m'sia esp my dad. So that i don have to keep repeating myself ...
Here i shall start from the top ah...my parents are staying at my grandpa's place with him, my 3rd aunt and a maid. The maid had been with the family for quite some time and she has agreed to help my mom to take care of my dad. That means we gonna add some money for her for that extra responsibilities lar. When i was in m'sia the maid hasn't really got down to helping but my mom is starting to teach her abit now. Things like learning wat to cook for my dad is impt too. Cos my dad is practically full of diseases he can't eat alot of things u see. And bathing him? my dad can't bathe himself. My dad's artery is also quite blocked..so he can't use too much force etc. He might need to go do a bypass operation but that would have to wait cos his appointment with the local hospital is one mth from now. If u're thinking y must wait soo long ...it's like that..too many pple....including in s'pore..we waited for 2 mths for the hospital docs to see my dad...My dad seems abit senile at times. He doesn't tok much cos his speech is slurred and sometmes he cant rem wat he did or did n do..u know..old pple. But he wasn't like that b4 he was ill. hai. Oh yeah he can walk ...but not for too long and he's very slow. He can't use his right hand anymore ...yeah..so that;s quite inconvenient lar..yap so anything else? I appreciate the little concerns u frens had showed me..next time anymoore pple ask abt my parents i think i shall just direct them to this page haha save all my saliva...ask me i oso donoe at to say somemore..too many things..
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